Wednesday, January 13, 2016

"He's only with his wife because he sees her as a sex object"


I have a friend who is currently online dating  a guy she met online who is married with children. She is married with three children and a 4th on the way.  
She has complained to me severally about her husband and his attitude towards her but I have always told her that its a storm that will pass over but 
she said recently the husband told her 
he married her for sex because he didn't want to have sex outside marriage and that she turns him on sexually even in her present condition and says some women do not get that much sex from their husbands even when they are naked in front of the man so she should be grateful.

  This has made her withdrawn and feel she is nothing other than a sex object for him and is almost making her lose her self esteem even though she is a high professional in the oil and gas sector.
She practically does everything at home- rent, school fees and other financial obligations because most of the time her husbands complains of not having money since he is a business man.
    She said she has not really met the online guy in person but they chat and he calls her almost everyday to check on her about her condition(she is about 8 months pregnant), prays with her and makes her feel on top of the world.
She wants to know how to get out of this situation because she is beginning to love the online guy and wants to chat or talk with him on phone at the slightest opportunity she gets because the online guy professes to love her and even encourages her about the issues in her marriage.
I really want sincere advice for my friend because I don't want to see her marriage breaking up.
Help My Friend.
Warm Wishes,

1 comment:

  1. She does not really have a problem. Her problem could be solved by her and her husband going through the book the five love languages as it will help the relationship. Let them do it a chapter a day reading aloud and discussing what they have read and openly speaking about their matters. Her husband is a touch person and obviously she is one who needs to be affirmed and hereing good things. Once he speaks with love he will have all the sex he wants.


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