Saturday, March 26, 2016

Secret Love.....

I met my current guy while we were in the university, same level  11 years ago. Just same jam bite at the big lecture theatre. We became friends 2 years later when he came to visit his friend, who was my neighbor then. He stylishly asked me out, though i didn't take him serious cos he is the friendly type, always in company of friends, that endeared him to both male & female.

My neighbour, his friend (MR G.,) heard of it and discouraged me from dating him. 2009 I started dating Mr G. and we had a sweet relationship not until we went for NYSC. He misbehaved there so we ended the relationship and went back to the way we were as friends(I was the brain behind that). Now my ex. is married and I am dating his friend who first asked me out.

My guy is a wonderful, handsome dude but he doesn't want his friends to know about it cos he feared they might discourage him from marrying me(of course they are my friends too and I know what they are capable of doing). It's affecting me sort of that why my relationship is very private. Even when one of his friends got married few weeks ago, I acted as if I didn't know him.

Kindly advise me, cos I don't know how long we would hide our love from his folks. I can't even visit him cos of that cos he has a joint business with a known friend. My work give room for me to visit but he is the busy type. My challenge now is, how do I make him more committed to the relationship cos I am not growing younger...will be 30 by July?


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