Friday, April 15, 2016

Am In A Cross Road

I was in a relationship with a man whom I loved so much and he made me believe he loves me too and promised we were going to get married, I remained faithful to him for 3 good years, we had a misunderstanding and I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, we stopped talking to each other for 2months.

He came back after 2months to plead that we continue the relationship and I was contemplating either to continue or let go of him only for me to discover that at this period we had a misunderstanding he got into a relationship with a girl who claimed she is pregnant and got her family involved,..

I was so devastated when I found out but thank God for friends who were there for me and encouraged me to move on. I let go of him though he claimed he was me he wanted that the other lady was a mistake he regrets every minute. I stayed clear & wasn't interested in whatever was going on between him and the lady's family for 5months though he do call to check up on me.
The issue now is he is back pleading that we should get married, that the lady had a miscarriage and he is no more interested in her claiming all about the lady was a mistake which he still have time to correct, that I am his love and life. He said that the agreement between his family and the lady's family was that he will get married to her after delivery that he did not pay her bride price ...

which am not sure is the truth because his friend said he did a traditional marriage but he was not there. What do I do, should I go back to him? How will the lady feel if he gets married to me? I live a simple life and do not want to hurt anyone. Secondly there is this guy I was trying to get along with after breaking up with the other, though its a long distance....

...relationship and I only get to see him once in 2months, I have doubts of anything working out between us. He is not a type that calls, we only chat on whatsapp everyday and I don't like it. He is a nice person though and says he is in love with me and wants to marry me, I don't know what to believe anymore. How do I handle this issue?

Please help a confused sister.

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