Friday, April 8, 2016

My Girl Friend Wants Me Back But I Already Moved On. Help!

Hi Marital Ties Readers,

Please I would be as brief as possible.
I and my girlfriend have dated for about 7 months and everything was all right untill November 2015 when I got promoted And transferred from Lagos to kwara. This developed has changed my schedule which makes me more busy and unavailable even during weekend.

Since I got to kwara I never travelled to lagos to see her or my family but we talk regularly on phone. One day, in January 2016 she just surprisingly told me she wanted to break up which uptil today I can't figure out why. When I confronted her she said she wasn't just interested because she feels I am not serious and I have some one else I am dating and that I am not caring anymore and she can't cope again. I tried to convince her about my job but to no avail. I even scheduled my 2 weeks leave for July which is her birthday month but she said it's non of her business that she needed to see me before then. So i left her for about 2 months without communication. Now April she called me just to check on me and told me how much she missed me and want me back. However my fear is my job will still not allow me travel and history might repeat itself as I am not willing to travel to see her and she can't come over because she is a student and stays with her parents.
My question is do I accept her back or just move on with my life. My fear is she is likely to do the same thing again thereby wasting my time and scare resources.

What do you advise?

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