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Thursday, April 21, 2016

My Love For Him Is Fading Away....



Hubby is a proud person,he doesn't know how to say I'm sorry when he goes wrong. Things have been a bit difficult for us for sometime now and we have been managing with two kids,hoping and praying he gets a better job soon. We have been fasting and praying for Gods blessings upon our lives, hubby does the most fasting cos I had my second baby 3months ago.


What baffles me is that even with all that is happening,he still has time to flirt and sleep with other gals.
I used to think it was just flirting alone on social media,cos hubby belongs to almost all d social median site u can think of,not until he started receiving mid night calls and he'll stand up and go to d toilet to pick the call.


The height of it was today when I saw a facebook msg of a gal telling him how her body is yet to recover from wit he did to her last week and wants them to meet up this weekend,that she will pay d bills.
Do you know hubbys responds???
"You know say i get kids, and i got to spend some quality time with them and na only weekend i dey try to do am, make we see how things go be shaa"

That was his response. He didn't even mention me only hid kids. This is a man I spend all d penny I have to support whenever he is broke.
I confronted him in a subtle way when he came back today andt guess what??? Not even a word to me till this very moment.


He has no regard and respect for me and that's so insulting to me.
Please can you advice me on what to do cos I don't feel this marriage anymore and the love I feel for him is fading away.



3 comments:

  1. Prayer Madam. All those toothpick legged girls that used to flirt with my husband, I told God to re-arrange dem waka go another side. Now, they are all married except for two. The ones that are married have kids and other things to think about. Though, it was just flirting sha maybe that's why I didn't hammer on it seriously. Na once once they chat with hubby now. And it's not things like 'you don't call', how are you', it's things like how's Madam and baby, how does she cope with motherhood and all that. The point is, you can't fix your husband. You didn't create him in the first place. Carry the matter go meet God. Tell him what you want. You will be surprised at how he will answer.

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  2. Prayer Madam. All those toothpick legged girls that used to flirt with my husband, I told God to re-arrange dem waka go another side. Now, they are all married except for two. The ones that are married have kids and other things to think about. Though, it was just flirting sha maybe that's why I didn't hammer on it seriously. Na once once they chat with hubby now. And it's not things like 'you don't call', how are you', it's things like how's Madam and baby, how does she cope with motherhood and all that. The point is, you can't fix your husband. You didn't create him in the first place. Carry the matter go meet God. Tell him what you want. You will be surprised at how he will answer.

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  3. Y worry so much thank God that he recognise the fact that he has kids n needs to spend quality time with them. Galfrnd don't go tru his phone if not u keep seeing things dat will hurt u more pray and take good care of itself n d kids. Don't say it's easier said than done. God forbid if anything happens to you the so called girls will move in after 8days so stay away from his phone and learn d silence technique whereby he can't predict ur actions.the lord will guide ur home n make way for your husband.it is well

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