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Thursday, April 21, 2016

My Marriage started Well Until..



My marriage started off well until after I had my first miscarriage. My so sweet husband suddenly started keeping funny friends and before I knew it he started staying out late,traveling often,chatting late night and all. At first I wasn't bother until he stopped going to church I confronted him on his weird changes and I got the shock of my life. A man I dated....


...for good 2yrs who acted like he can't hurt a fly gave me the beating of my life and since then hitting me at the slightest provocation has become a tradition. In July last year I got a positive pregnancy result and was waiting for my dear husband to return from one of his short trips when I decided to rush down to shoprite to get his favorite drink there I...
...saw a shock, my own husband smiling and walking out of Mr price with one young lady with his arm around her neck playing love nwantintin hmmm I managed to put myself together so as not to create a scene and went back home to wait for him. When he came home I asked him who the girl was and what was going on between them,then his phone rang he...

...practically ignored and disrespected my presence, picked his call and talked to his mistress right before me. My people I no lie you I could not swallow that. I collected his phone from him and ended his conversation before I say jack na ground I see myself he beat me kicked me...Thank God his younger brother was home and came to my rescue. My stomach pained me...

...all through the night till morning and I started bleeding and that was how I lost that second pregnancy. My life has being in shambles since that day, though he apologized when he heard I was pregnant and lost it. He parents came into the situation and tried to resolve things, he was scolded by his dad and I thought that made a lot of difference but no. Oga no....
 ...gree change for women matter even though he has not lifted his hands on me since then. Lately he has been chatting with this particular girl even when we are together I asked him who she was and he said she was just a friend,i no talk until this morning I changed my BlackBerry name to the girls BlackBerry name oga didn't know I was the one and he started....
...chatting with me thinking it was the girl hmmm what my eyes read in that little conversation almost gave me a heart attack later in the day he realized he was chatting with the wrong person (e b lyk say the babe pinged him) so he snatched my phone from me and discovered I was the one,he got so angry beat the living day light out of me and gave me a head...


...injury packed his things and left the house and insulted me of not having a child. I am so confused our marriage is just two years with so much drama. The man I fell in love with and married is not same man I live with. The bible says marriage is honorable and the bed not defiled. I kept my pride for my husband...

..but I hate to feel that the waiting wasn't worth it after all,i hate to feel I gave it to the wrong person, did he fool me in our 2yrs of dating or
was I just so blind that I didn't see all these
traits. I hate to ask God why me? I still love him but sincerely I have fallen out of...
...forgiveness. I wish I could turn back the hand of time I may not be perfect but I know I deserve better.

Please I really need your advice on what to do.




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