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Monday, April 11, 2016

Now I Want To Treat Her Fuckup...





My marriage is 7yrs now with 2girls and 1boy but since after my first child my hubby gave me space se xually. Throughout a month he might not even touch me and we are sharing the same bed. I do reported him to his very close cousin but no changes, after I report him he will adjust and later do as usual. Even in three month we can be like day without anything btw us. I am not comfortable with this and am not dirty the type. I do wear skippy dresses in the house and even dress fine and neat outside the house.
That's how we have been running our home that with time God will change his mind towards me because he was not like this during our courtship even I can say we cant do without each other for 3days..
...I've sat him down several times to talk to him and plead, I even go to extend of asking him if he doesn't enjoy making love to me again and he always give me same story that if he doesn't come I should come, that he's always busy in d office etc. So after my 2nd born, one day he forgot his phone at home which made me have access to it. I now discovered he had...

...more than two girlfriends which really pained me bcus I trusted him like 80% before so after then I just trust him like 10% so anything about him going out everyday or calling or chat am less concerned about it again. In fact after my 3rd kid, we have done 5 good months without touching each other bcus I've made up my mind to just abandon him to.

...do his wish....Till this year when they posted a corper to his office under him directly, although this is not the first time, he will just mention them to my hearing but this time around I don't even know they have post any to him till I started seeing gifts with the kids after they return from school and when I ask they tell me it's their dad's friend that...


...gave them. I became suspicious that who could be the friend that they pick on their way everyday, so I asked my husband and he said she is a corper and when it became everyday routine I stopped the kids from collecting anything from her again. My hubby was very angry with me that why will I say something like that without informing him that it's an insult to him in...

...the office and the lady was very
embarrassed that do I mean she will poison the kids. That situation died down but
everyday it's my hubby that will take her to the office and return her home. The worse part of it is that they will depart by 6pm downward and when he gets home they will still be chatting with each other till 10.30pm when am on bed with him(See...

 ...me see Gobe). I tried to stop him with all what I know and I told him I hate it when he presses his phone while we are on bed but he didn't change and this motivated me to be checking his phone early in the morning to know what he chatted about. Now he has gone really intimate with the corper that she will be asking my hubby if he has eaten, and if he enjoyed it? Or ask...

...him questions like 'are you now on bed, what is happening over there?'. I've been
following their chat for like 3weeks before my hubby discovered and he confronted me but I denied it and later still came to me that he's sure I touched his phone and read his messages so I couldn't hide my feelings again I came out plain that i read it and I cursed the lady...

...very well(and this is my 1st time of raising my voice on my hubby) and I even threatened to report the lady to their permanent secretary. So he later came to me that I shouldn't that I won't know where the case will end and that's our source of income so I complied. To my surprise, I still saw them together in the car on thursday and he still went ahead...

 ...to picked her to office on Friday which I passed by their side and am sure he will still drop her in the evening after work. Now I want to treat the girl's f*ckup. I will first call her to stop having affairs with my hubby despite the fact that she knows me. We don't't even match, she is like my 4th younger sis, very very low to...

...me and she even sings 'yes ma yes ma' for
me anytime I go to my hubby's office. Now I'm thinking of going to NYSC office to report her and even put all this and her pic on social media because have realised patience cannot just settle this matter and my hubby's case, I've decided to be talking back at him and not be...

...watching him again since it doesn't change anything. Please what do you think and  what should I do. I'm totally confused.
The End.


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