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Saturday, June 4, 2016

My mother in- law wants to control my home




I just had my first child last month and my MIL is around to do "omugo", even if it's against my wish. My hubby and I agreed that it would be my mom, that was before I put to bed. Only for him to say it would be his mum because he wants me to get used to her and to build friendship between us,I agreed. My hubby and I are Muslims but his mom is a christian...

...and a celestian for that matter. To cut the long story short, before I put to bed my MIL told me not to cut my baby's hair because a message was delivered to her through her dream, and I told her its against my religion but she kept on talking and wants me to see reasons why it shouldn't be cut. I kept mute and didn't say anything and later she was like...


...its my business, that at least it would be my child,I should do whatever I wish to do to him,I still didn't utter a word. I had my baby through CS and was at d hospital for long. She was with me throughout the hospital days, and on the 5th day she still reminded me of the msg,I decided to tell my hubby about it and he said if that's the only thing he can do for his mom....
...that will make her happy,that he will do it and not cut the baby's hair. I was surprised but all was due to her influence.so I had to send a message 2 my father inlaw telling him about the hair thing as I know he won't agree to it cos he's also a Muslim. Then my baby's hair was cut on d 7th day that was his naming ceremony and my MIL was angry saying why....

...didn't I stop him and I told her he's my father inlaw and I can't stop him as it's his first grandchild from his male son, but deep inside me I was happy but didn't show it. We went home after a week of delivery, on getting home my MIL will sprinkle some scentful water around the house and on my baby after bathing him. I wasn't cool with it but I kept...

...mute. She has invited different prophets to come and pray for me and the house and those ones will be telling me some things I don't even understand. Most annoying part was that anyone that call or come to visit her will know that I had my baby through CS. i told my hubby about it and he said I should endure that she would leave soon. The recent one....

...now is that she went to d market yesterday and got back with white fabric saying she wants to sew sutana for my baby, I just acted like she wasn't talking to me and reported the issue to my hubby. He said he knows and I told him that I don't want it, she can sew the sutana but she shouldn't dare say she wanna take my child to the church cos I want to bring...

...him up in my own way of religion but he didn't answer. She has gone to the tailor's place today to have the sutana sewn but my problem now is that how do I tell her I don't want d sutana on my baby cos I don't wanna sound rude? Do u think I should allow her do what she wants with my baby?Do u think I...
...should let her wear d sutana on him and take him to church when she say she wants to She knows I don't discriminate and I think that's why she's trying to take advantage.

 Please I need your candid advise on this issue.






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