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Sunday, July 17, 2016

Why Do Men Cheat Even When In A Relationship.Some men are immature while some have deep issues. In truth, there is no justification to engaging in sexual affairs outside your main relationship---be it dating or marriage.Men are somewhat different than women when it comes to cheating, and a lot of that difference arises from the fact that men tend to define infidelity rather loosely. Keep in mind this famous statement: “I did not have sexual relationship with that woman.”Men, in particular, appear to rely on their intellect—utilising these kinds of digital word games—in order to continue and justify their extra-curricular sexual behaviour....like "Back in the days, the concept of cheating was straightforward: It involved physical sexual contact. But now, a man in Lagos, Nigeria can mutually masturbate, online via webcam, with a woman in cape town, South Africa.....and should his wife or girlfriend discover this, he can say, simply and in all sincerity, “Honey, it doesn’t mean anything. She’s thousands of miles away, I’ve never met her, and I’m never going to meet her. How can I be cheating with someone I’ll never meet in person?”Some men though may argue that its their biological responsibility to have sex with as many women as possible. Some even use a cheap excuse as saying the population of women is more than that of men so they need people to meet their sexual cravings as well.An argument ensued between a couple sometime ago......the wife had complained that her husband was having other sexual partners. When her husband was questioned, he didn't deny it, he in fact went ahead to claim that he was right to do what he did and doesn't think he is cheating on his wife. In his opinion, he had paid her dowry and he owned her therefore he could do as he wish. So in his case, he felt that as the man of the house, he had the right and power to do whatever he deems fit, part of which it was that he engaged in sexual affairs outside his marriage. Whereas, some men just take a look at themselves and think "hey, am I still good looking as before I got married? Is my partner managing me because we are committed to each other? Okay, let me go outside my marriage/affair and see if I can get a lady. The most common and if I must say, the cheapest of all excuses are that "my woman no longer looks good". Hello! When you met her, how was she? However she looks now, you made her that way. Then they go outside and spend aimlessly on other women, money which if spent on their woman, would definitely make her look better than those outside.If you know you still want to flirt around, take your time and don't commit to any woman yet, once you do, there is no reason or right or justification to you engaging in sexual affairs outside that commitment.

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